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  • 00:00 --> 00:02Funding for Yale Cancer Answers is
  • 00:02 --> 00:04provided by Smilow Cancer Hospital.
  • 00:06 --> 00:08Welcome to Yale Cancer answers with
  • 00:08 --> 00:10your host doctor Anees Chagpar.
  • 00:10 --> 00:12Yale Cancer Answers features the
  • 00:12 --> 00:14latest information on cancer care by
  • 00:14 --> 00:16welcoming oncologists and specialists
  • 00:16 --> 00:18who are on the forefront of the
  • 00:18 --> 00:20battle to fight cancer. This week,
  • 00:20 --> 00:22it's a conversation about cancer
  • 00:22 --> 00:24survivorship with licensed clinical
  • 00:24 --> 00:25social worker Angela Khairallah.
  • 00:25 --> 00:28Dr Chagpar is a professor of surgical
  • 00:28 --> 00:30oncology at the Yale School of Medicine.
  • 00:31 --> 00:33Angela, maybe we can start off by you
  • 00:33 --> 00:35telling us a little bit more about
  • 00:35 --> 00:37yourself and what it is you do.
  • 00:37 --> 00:40I'm a licensed clinical social worker
  • 00:40 --> 00:43and currently I work in the Smilow Breast
  • 00:43 --> 00:46Center as well as the Smilow Cancer
  • 00:46 --> 00:49Center Survivorship Clinic and in part of
  • 00:49 --> 00:52my role I meet with patients and I
  • 00:52 --> 00:55spend time just getting to know them,
  • 00:55 --> 00:58checking in, see how they're doing.
  • 00:58 --> 01:00You know, I really like to find out how
  • 01:00 --> 01:02patients are doing on an emotional level.
  • 01:02 --> 01:05Particularly with regards to their diagnosis,
  • 01:05 --> 01:08how they're coping and managing
  • 01:08 --> 01:09throughout treatment.
  • 01:09 --> 01:11As well as into, you know,
  • 01:11 --> 01:13survivorship and when I meet with patients,
  • 01:13 --> 01:16you know what I'd like to talk to
  • 01:16 --> 01:18them about is that you know when
  • 01:18 --> 01:20you're diagnosed with cancer,
  • 01:20 --> 01:22it can affect all aspects of your life.
  • 01:22 --> 01:24It can affect it socially,
  • 01:24 --> 01:26emotionally, spiritually, financially,
  • 01:26 --> 01:28and even sexually,
  • 01:28 --> 01:31and it's really not uncommon that
  • 01:31 --> 01:33when patients are diagnosed with
  • 01:33 --> 01:35cancer and are going through treatment
  • 01:35 --> 01:37that they might develop some anxiety
  • 01:37 --> 01:40and some depression as a result.
  • 01:40 --> 01:42Of what they're going through, and so it's.
  • 01:42 --> 01:45It's not uncommon for that to impact
  • 01:45 --> 01:47them shortly after their diagnosis,
  • 01:47 --> 01:49as well as throughout treatment.
  • 01:49 --> 01:50But on the other end,
  • 01:50 --> 01:52when I meet with patients in
  • 01:52 --> 01:54the cancer survivorship clinic,
  • 01:54 --> 01:57I often see it at that point as well.
  • 01:57 --> 01:58You know,
  • 01:58 --> 01:59I I can't tell you how many
  • 01:59 --> 02:01patients will share with me.
  • 02:01 --> 02:03You know, I did fine. I was strong.
  • 02:03 --> 02:05I fought this thing.
  • 02:05 --> 02:08I didn't cry at all the whole through,
  • 02:08 --> 02:09throughout all of my treatment.
  • 02:09 --> 02:11And now that everything's done
  • 02:11 --> 02:12and everything's behind me.
  • 02:12 --> 02:14Now I'm starting to feel overwhelmed.
  • 02:14 --> 02:17I'm starting to get anxious and worried,
  • 02:17 --> 02:18and you know,
  • 02:18 --> 02:19really,
  • 02:19 --> 02:21it's just about listening and
  • 02:21 --> 02:22validating and normalizing their
  • 02:22 --> 02:25feelings that you know that what
  • 02:25 --> 02:26they're going through is normal
  • 02:26 --> 02:28and actually is quite common.
  • 02:28 --> 02:29You know,
  • 02:29 --> 02:31it's it's pretty often that I meet with
  • 02:31 --> 02:33patients in the cancer survivorship
  • 02:33 --> 02:36clinic and they are experiencing you know,
  • 02:36 --> 02:38those fears and those worries
  • 02:38 --> 02:41that the cancer could come back
  • 02:41 --> 02:43and and even occur or reoccur.
  • 02:43 --> 02:45And so while I'm meeting with patients,
  • 02:45 --> 02:48I complete a full psychosocial assessment.
  • 02:48 --> 02:50Ask them a variety of questions to
  • 02:50 --> 02:52get to know them better and see
  • 02:52 --> 02:55how I might be able to best help
  • 02:55 --> 02:56them throughout this whole process.
  • 02:57 --> 02:58Yeah, you know,
  • 02:58 --> 03:00cancer is one of these things that
  • 03:01 --> 03:03it really does strike the fear of.
  • 03:03 --> 03:05Of God and everything else in you.
  • 03:05 --> 03:08I mean it. It is one of those
  • 03:08 --> 03:10things that doesn't, you know,
  • 03:10 --> 03:13take time to schedule on your calendar.
  • 03:13 --> 03:18It comes oftentimes out of the blue and.
  • 03:18 --> 03:21And it really does have just
  • 03:21 --> 03:24tremendous fear associated with it,
  • 03:24 --> 03:27so you know and and from what
  • 03:27 --> 03:29you're you're telling me,
  • 03:29 --> 03:30and from what I've experienced
  • 03:30 --> 03:31as a clinician as well,
  • 03:31 --> 03:33is that this is something that
  • 03:33 --> 03:35never completely goes away.
  • 03:35 --> 03:38So let's kind of walk through the
  • 03:38 --> 03:40journey of of a cancer patient
  • 03:40 --> 03:41when they're first diagnosed.
  • 03:42 --> 03:44Is that when you first meet them and.
  • 03:44 --> 03:46And how do you kind of,
  • 03:46 --> 03:49aside from telling them that you know
  • 03:49 --> 03:50when you're diagnosed with cancer?
  • 03:50 --> 03:52It does tend to be a little
  • 03:52 --> 03:54bit of a scary experience.
  • 03:54 --> 03:57How do you kind of help
  • 03:57 --> 03:59them to overcome that fear?
  • 03:59 --> 04:02Or deal with it or manage it.
  • 04:02 --> 04:04Or kind of not put their life on
  • 04:04 --> 04:07hold and somehow continue to put 1
  • 04:07 --> 04:10foot in front of the other as they
  • 04:10 --> 04:12try to deal with this diagnosis,
  • 04:12 --> 04:13right?
  • 04:13 --> 04:13So I think
  • 04:13 --> 04:16that yes I do meet a number of patients
  • 04:16 --> 04:19who are diagnosed at the beginning
  • 04:19 --> 04:22of treatment and I I really think
  • 04:22 --> 04:25it's about talking to patients and
  • 04:25 --> 04:27really understanding where they're
  • 04:27 --> 04:29coming from validating their feelings.
  • 04:29 --> 04:30Normalizing that,
  • 04:30 --> 04:33what they're going through is very
  • 04:33 --> 04:36similar to what many others go through,
  • 04:36 --> 04:38and those fears those worries that those
  • 04:38 --> 04:41concerns that they are having those are real.
  • 04:41 --> 04:44And many people also experience that,
  • 04:44 --> 04:47I think just being there to provide them
  • 04:47 --> 04:50with support as they go through the process,
  • 04:50 --> 04:52you know and really helping them
  • 04:52 --> 04:54understand that a side effect of
  • 04:54 --> 04:57going through cancer and treatment is,
  • 04:57 --> 04:59you know, experiencing some anxiety.
  • 04:59 --> 05:01Some worries, some fears,
  • 05:01 --> 05:03sadness as a result of what
  • 05:03 --> 05:05they're going through.
  • 05:05 --> 05:06And from my standpoint,
  • 05:06 --> 05:09I like to assess and make sure that
  • 05:09 --> 05:12those worries those fears those sadness.
  • 05:12 --> 05:15Isn't impacting somebody's quality of life,
  • 05:15 --> 05:15you know,
  • 05:15 --> 05:17and I'd like to educate them and
  • 05:17 --> 05:19explain that it's OK to have a day
  • 05:19 --> 05:21once in a while when you're sad or
  • 05:21 --> 05:22where you're worried or scared.
  • 05:22 --> 05:23You know,
  • 05:23 --> 05:25it's OK that you might be feeling
  • 05:25 --> 05:26anxious and and you lost a night
  • 05:26 --> 05:28of sleep or two over this,
  • 05:28 --> 05:30but when you're noticing that those worries,
  • 05:30 --> 05:32those fears that sadness it goes on for
  • 05:32 --> 05:35several days on to several weeks at a time,
  • 05:35 --> 05:37you really do need to make sure
  • 05:37 --> 05:39that you're letting your team know.
  • 05:39 --> 05:41Let your medical oncologist or your
  • 05:41 --> 05:43surgeon know, asked to speak with.
  • 05:43 --> 05:45A social worker who would be associated
  • 05:45 --> 05:47with your clinic and then they can
  • 05:47 --> 05:50further assess is their need for
  • 05:50 --> 05:51additional support and services.
  • 05:51 --> 05:53If I do identify that a patient would
  • 05:53 --> 05:55benefit from additional support and services,
  • 05:55 --> 05:58I frequently refer out to providers
  • 05:58 --> 06:01in the Community who can provide,
  • 06:01 --> 06:01you know,
  • 06:01 --> 06:03mental health counseling and support.
  • 06:03 --> 06:05I'll often encourage patients to
  • 06:05 --> 06:08attend a local Cancer Support group in
  • 06:08 --> 06:10that area to provide additional layer
  • 06:10 --> 06:13one of the other things that I will.
  • 06:13 --> 06:16Do is you know I talked to patients
  • 06:16 --> 06:18about one of one of the helpful
  • 06:18 --> 06:20interventions for people that are
  • 06:20 --> 06:22experiencing anxiety and depression
  • 06:22 --> 06:24is meeting with a professional who
  • 06:24 --> 06:27specializes in cognitive behavioral
  • 06:27 --> 06:28interventions.
  • 06:28 --> 06:30You know, talk to patients about you.
  • 06:30 --> 06:32Know the connections between their thoughts,
  • 06:32 --> 06:34their feelings and their behaviors,
  • 06:34 --> 06:37as well as what truly is and what
  • 06:37 --> 06:39isn't in their control.
  • 06:39 --> 06:41As a result of everything that
  • 06:41 --> 06:42you're going through.
  • 06:42 --> 06:44You know when someone is
  • 06:44 --> 06:45initially diagnosed with cancer,
  • 06:45 --> 06:47it truly does feel like it's
  • 06:47 --> 06:49completely out of their control.
  • 06:49 --> 06:51And what lies at the core of our
  • 06:51 --> 06:53fears and our worries often are
  • 06:53 --> 06:55things that feel like they're out of
  • 06:55 --> 06:57their control or out of our control.
  • 06:57 --> 07:00And so I will talk to patients about
  • 07:00 --> 07:03how can you bring back control over
  • 07:03 --> 07:05something that feels so out of control
  • 07:05 --> 07:08in your life and help them identify
  • 07:08 --> 07:11strategies to help them move forward.
  • 07:11 --> 07:13I also like to encourage
  • 07:13 --> 07:14patients to make sure that
  • 07:14 --> 07:16they have an adequate
  • 07:16 --> 07:17support system around them.
  • 07:17 --> 07:19We do know that by having family and
  • 07:19 --> 07:22friends and neighbors and a medical
  • 07:22 --> 07:24team that surrounds you through this
  • 07:24 --> 07:26process helps you in the long run.
  • 07:27 --> 07:29And and that's so important,
  • 07:29 --> 07:32and I think one of the things that you
  • 07:32 --> 07:35know for cancer patients as well As for
  • 07:35 --> 07:37people going through whatever ailment
  • 07:37 --> 07:40you may be going through thinking
  • 07:40 --> 07:42about what is within your control
  • 07:42 --> 07:45and what is not within your control.
  • 07:45 --> 07:48And you know the fact that.
  • 07:51 --> 07:54There are things that you can do that
  • 07:54 --> 07:57are constructive that are within your
  • 07:57 --> 08:00control that can kind of empower you,
  • 08:00 --> 08:03and in so doing reduce your fears.
  • 08:03 --> 08:05So can we talk a little bit more
  • 08:05 --> 08:07about some of those strategies?
  • 08:07 --> 08:10What kinds of things would you talk to a
  • 08:10 --> 08:12patient about that that are within their
  • 08:12 --> 08:14control that might reduce their anxiety,
  • 08:15 --> 08:17right? Well, first and foremost,
  • 08:17 --> 08:21I would encourage patients to.
  • 08:21 --> 08:22Think about you know,
  • 08:22 --> 08:24think about what is in their control
  • 08:24 --> 08:26and some of the things that patients
  • 08:26 --> 08:28have identified when I've worked
  • 08:28 --> 08:30with them are things like, well,
  • 08:30 --> 08:32I have control whether or not I
  • 08:32 --> 08:35choose to even treat this cancer.
  • 08:35 --> 08:37I have control whether or not I choose
  • 08:37 --> 08:39to go to my appointments or follow
  • 08:39 --> 08:41up with my scans or get my blood
  • 08:41 --> 08:43work so that that's a choice that
  • 08:43 --> 08:45they have that is in their control.
  • 08:45 --> 08:47But what we also know,
  • 08:47 --> 08:48and one of the things I educate
  • 08:48 --> 08:51patients about, is that you.
  • 08:51 --> 08:55You have control over well what we do
  • 08:55 --> 08:57know is that if we're getting adequate sleep,
  • 08:57 --> 09:00you know adequate hydration.
  • 09:00 --> 09:03Making healthy food choices, you know,
  • 09:03 --> 09:06exercising or walking as much as we can.
  • 09:06 --> 09:08Those are all things that
  • 09:08 --> 09:09help us feel better.
  • 09:09 --> 09:11Those are things that help with worry.
  • 09:11 --> 09:13Those are things that help
  • 09:13 --> 09:14with sadness and depression,
  • 09:14 --> 09:16and those are things that we do have,
  • 09:16 --> 09:18you know, control over,
  • 09:18 --> 09:19and so I will encourage
  • 09:19 --> 09:21them to just think about.
  • 09:21 --> 09:23Or kind of reframe.
  • 09:23 --> 09:25You know how they're thinking about
  • 09:25 --> 09:27something also thinking about?
  • 09:27 --> 09:29You know trying to take this
  • 09:29 --> 09:32whole process one step at a time.
  • 09:32 --> 09:34I have patients who often feel
  • 09:34 --> 09:36completely overwhelmed by all of
  • 09:36 --> 09:38the things that they are asked to.
  • 09:38 --> 09:40Do you know this appointment?
  • 09:40 --> 09:41That appointment surgery?
  • 09:41 --> 09:43Dealing with this side effect,
  • 09:43 --> 09:44that side effect,
  • 09:44 --> 09:46it's just sometimes can feel so
  • 09:46 --> 09:48so daunting and overwhelming.
  • 09:48 --> 09:50I'll encourage them to try to
  • 09:50 --> 09:53take it one day at a time or even
  • 09:53 --> 09:55one hour at a time to try to move
  • 09:55 --> 09:57forward in in accomplishing the
  • 09:57 --> 09:59things that they need to accomplish.
  • 10:00 --> 10:03Yeah, that's such such good advice.
  • 10:03 --> 10:05I mean, I think when we think back
  • 10:05 --> 10:06to what you were talking about
  • 10:06 --> 10:08in terms of what you can control,
  • 10:08 --> 10:10you may not be able to control
  • 10:10 --> 10:13the fact that you got cancer.
  • 10:13 --> 10:14That that is.
  • 10:14 --> 10:19A historical fact for cancer patients
  • 10:19 --> 10:22that they can't go back in time and change,
  • 10:22 --> 10:24but what they can change is what
  • 10:24 --> 10:25they do moving forward.
  • 10:25 --> 10:27So going to your appointments,
  • 10:27 --> 10:29choosing to get treated.
  • 10:29 --> 10:34And at least those are things that you
  • 10:34 --> 10:37are doing to help overcome this cancer.
  • 10:37 --> 10:39You can't control whether or
  • 10:39 --> 10:41not you're cancer will respond,
  • 10:41 --> 10:44but you can control whether or not
  • 10:44 --> 10:46you talk to your medical oncologist.
  • 10:46 --> 10:48And you know.
  • 10:48 --> 10:50Surround yourself with a team
  • 10:50 --> 10:52who can treat the cancer,
  • 10:52 --> 10:54no matter whether it chooses to
  • 10:54 --> 10:56respond to one therapy or not.
  • 10:56 --> 10:59You know the other thing that I
  • 10:59 --> 11:02think is overwhelming for a lot of
  • 11:02 --> 11:05patients is that it's not just the
  • 11:05 --> 11:08cancer which is scary in and of itself.
  • 11:08 --> 11:11Many patients are are looking at
  • 11:11 --> 11:13their cancer diagnosis and kind
  • 11:13 --> 11:15of looking in the mirror and
  • 11:15 --> 11:17evaluating their own mortality,
  • 11:17 --> 11:20which they may not have done in
  • 11:20 --> 11:22a while. But at the same
  • 11:22 --> 11:24time, there's also other fears
  • 11:24 --> 11:26and you kind of alluded to this
  • 11:26 --> 11:28at the top of the show as well.
  • 11:28 --> 11:31You know fears about well.
  • 11:31 --> 11:32Are my friends still going
  • 11:32 --> 11:33to be there for me?
  • 11:33 --> 11:36Is my is my spouse still gonna love me?
  • 11:36 --> 11:40Am I still going to be able to have
  • 11:40 --> 11:42a sexual relationship and am I going
  • 11:42 --> 11:46to be able to afford all of these
  • 11:46 --> 11:48medical bills that are piling up?
  • 11:48 --> 11:50And oh, by the way,
  • 11:50 --> 11:51how am I going to communicate
  • 11:51 --> 11:53this diagnosis to my children?
  • 11:53 --> 11:55Are they going to be scared?
  • 11:55 --> 11:58Are they going to be diagnosed with cancer?
  • 11:58 --> 12:01And so the snowball kind of.
  • 12:01 --> 12:05Spins sometimes out of control with.
  • 12:05 --> 12:06It's not just.
  • 12:06 --> 12:09A disease it's not just a cancer,
  • 12:09 --> 12:12it's all of these other things that
  • 12:12 --> 12:15then kind of add complexity to what
  • 12:15 --> 12:18is already a harrowing experience.
  • 12:18 --> 12:20So can you kind of break that down
  • 12:20 --> 12:22for us and and give us some advice
  • 12:22 --> 12:24that you might give patients in
  • 12:24 --> 12:25trying to manage all of these
  • 12:25 --> 12:27other aspects of cancer that
  • 12:27 --> 12:29they may be facing as well.
  • 12:29 --> 12:31That might be adding to their anxiety.
  • 12:32 --> 12:37So I think that encouraging and talking
  • 12:37 --> 12:41to patients that this is the one time in
  • 12:41 --> 12:46your life where it's OK to ask for help.
  • 12:46 --> 12:48It's OK to turn to others and
  • 12:48 --> 12:51say I can't do this on my own.
  • 12:51 --> 12:52What do you suggest?
  • 12:52 --> 12:55How do you think I should manage
  • 12:55 --> 12:57and deal with this? You know, I,
  • 12:57 --> 12:59I will often talk to patients and say,
  • 12:59 --> 13:02you know, this is the time in your life
  • 13:02 --> 13:05where it's OK to also be accepting of help.
  • 13:05 --> 13:09So not only ask for it but also be
  • 13:09 --> 13:12accepting of it and so really you know.
  • 13:12 --> 13:14Letting talking to family members,
  • 13:14 --> 13:16talking to your friends, you know.
  • 13:16 --> 13:18Letting your medical team know.
  • 13:18 --> 13:19Also, you know again,
  • 13:19 --> 13:22asking to speak with your social
  • 13:22 --> 13:23worker within your clinic.
  • 13:23 --> 13:26These are all people in your lives
  • 13:26 --> 13:28that are there to help and support you.
  • 13:29 --> 13:31And So what I was about to say
  • 13:31 --> 13:33was I think that there are so
  • 13:33 --> 13:35many resources that people can
  • 13:35 --> 13:37avail themselves of that can help.
  • 13:37 --> 13:38But we need to take a short
  • 13:38 --> 13:40break for a medical minute.
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  • 13:42 --> 13:43other side of the break,
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  • 15:08 --> 15:10Welcome back to Yale Cancer Answers.
  • 15:10 --> 15:12This is doctor Anees Chagpar and I'm
  • 15:12 --> 15:15joined tonight by my guest, Angela Khairallah.
  • 15:15 --> 15:17We're talking about cancer survivorship
  • 15:17 --> 15:20and the fear of recurrence and and
  • 15:20 --> 15:22a number of anxieties that cancer
  • 15:23 --> 15:25patients face along this journey
  • 15:25 --> 15:27and we started off by talking about,
  • 15:27 --> 15:29you know things that you can control
  • 15:29 --> 15:31and things that you can't control.
  • 15:31 --> 15:34And the fact that fear is a totally normal
  • 15:34 --> 15:39part of of any cancer patients journey.
  • 15:39 --> 15:40But Angela right.
  • 15:40 --> 15:43Before the break we were starting
  • 15:43 --> 15:45to get into practical advice as
  • 15:45 --> 15:48we started to talk about the fact
  • 15:48 --> 15:51that it's not just, you know,
  • 15:51 --> 15:54the fear of the diagnosis of cancer itself.
  • 15:54 --> 15:57There's also for some patients, a.
  • 15:57 --> 16:00As spiritual kind of fear when they're
  • 16:00 --> 16:03thinking about their mortality and
  • 16:03 --> 16:06what's going to happen when they die.
  • 16:06 --> 16:07For some patients,
  • 16:07 --> 16:10there's also a relationship.
  • 16:10 --> 16:13Fear what's going to happen with
  • 16:13 --> 16:15my relationships with my spouse,
  • 16:15 --> 16:19my friends, sometimes a sexual fear.
  • 16:19 --> 16:23Am I going to be able to have the kind
  • 16:23 --> 16:25of sexual relationship I did before?
  • 16:25 --> 16:27Sometimes there's fears of.
  • 16:27 --> 16:29Employment and the repercussions
  • 16:29 --> 16:33of a cancer diagnosis in terms of
  • 16:33 --> 16:35either employment or insurance.
  • 16:35 --> 16:37Am I going to be able to continue
  • 16:37 --> 16:39my job and my ever going to get
  • 16:39 --> 16:40health insurance again?
  • 16:40 --> 16:43Am I ever going to get life insurance again?
  • 16:43 --> 16:45There's often fears associated
  • 16:45 --> 16:46with children do.
  • 16:46 --> 16:48How do I tell my child about this?
  • 16:48 --> 16:50What are they going to go through?
  • 16:50 --> 16:53What is going to be their emotional tool?
  • 16:53 --> 16:54And, you know,
  • 16:54 --> 16:56could they potentially get cancer
  • 16:56 --> 16:58as well as a fear of?
  • 16:58 --> 17:01And a guilt sometimes of my God.
  • 17:01 --> 17:03Am I doing this to my child?
  • 17:04 --> 17:04And and then.
  • 17:04 --> 17:09And then there's the whole financial fear of.
  • 17:09 --> 17:09Great,
  • 17:09 --> 17:11well I've got this diagnosis
  • 17:11 --> 17:13and I I've chosen to trade it,
  • 17:13 --> 17:14but then that's going to be
  • 17:14 --> 17:16associated with all kinds of
  • 17:16 --> 17:17bills that are going to come in.
  • 17:17 --> 17:20And my gosh now is there
  • 17:20 --> 17:21a fear of bankruptcy?
  • 17:21 --> 17:24And so while people are going
  • 17:24 --> 17:26through that treatment phase even
  • 17:26 --> 17:28before they get to survivorship
  • 17:28 --> 17:31in the whole fear of recurrence,
  • 17:31 --> 17:32which we'll get to.
  • 17:32 --> 17:35Can you talk a little bit more
  • 17:35 --> 17:38about specific strategies that
  • 17:38 --> 17:40people can use in dealing with
  • 17:40 --> 17:42all of these other fears that just
  • 17:42 --> 17:44kind of compound things as as
  • 17:44 --> 17:46they're going through treatment?
  • 17:48 --> 17:50Absolutely, you know,
  • 17:50 --> 17:54I would say there are a variety of
  • 17:54 --> 17:57resources and services within the
  • 17:57 --> 18:00Community that can help with a number
  • 18:00 --> 18:03of the things that you identified.
  • 18:03 --> 18:06Again, I think you know,
  • 18:06 --> 18:08reaching out to your team asking to
  • 18:08 --> 18:10speak with your clinic social worker,
  • 18:10 --> 18:14your clinic social worker should have
  • 18:14 --> 18:18access to and a list of a variety.
  • 18:18 --> 18:21Of resources and services?
  • 18:21 --> 18:23Uh, they would be able to answer
  • 18:23 --> 18:24questions you know related to
  • 18:24 --> 18:25how to apply for disability.
  • 18:25 --> 18:27They'd be able to answer questions
  • 18:27 --> 18:30about applying for FMLA here in the
  • 18:30 --> 18:32state of Connecticut we actually had
  • 18:32 --> 18:34something that started as of January.
  • 18:34 --> 18:36The Connecticut Family Leave Act.
  • 18:36 --> 18:38They'd be able to help address
  • 18:38 --> 18:40any questions or concerns that
  • 18:40 --> 18:41you had related to that.
  • 18:41 --> 18:43Also with cancer,
  • 18:43 --> 18:46depending on what type of cancer you have,
  • 18:46 --> 18:48there is a handful of.
  • 18:48 --> 18:50Financial grants that you can apply
  • 18:50 --> 18:53for while you're in active treatment
  • 18:53 --> 18:55and active treatment is typically
  • 18:55 --> 18:57defined as recently having surgery,
  • 18:57 --> 18:59going through chemotherapy or
  • 18:59 --> 19:02radiation treatment, and they help.
  • 19:02 --> 19:03Not ongoing,
  • 19:03 --> 19:05but kind of a one time thing where
  • 19:05 --> 19:07they they might help a little bit with
  • 19:07 --> 19:08with their mortgage or your rent.
  • 19:08 --> 19:10Or you know your utilities,
  • 19:10 --> 19:12that sort of thing.
  • 19:12 --> 19:12Also,
  • 19:12 --> 19:15depending on what hospital
  • 19:15 --> 19:17you know or center,
  • 19:17 --> 19:19you're being treated at they most likely.
  • 19:19 --> 19:23Will have some kind of program that you
  • 19:23 --> 19:26can apply for that could potentially
  • 19:26 --> 19:28help out with some of the medical
  • 19:28 --> 19:29expenses that you're incurring,
  • 19:29 --> 19:32and you know there's a variety
  • 19:32 --> 19:34of programs available out there
  • 19:34 --> 19:35as well that you could apply
  • 19:35 --> 19:37for that could potentially help
  • 19:37 --> 19:40with the expense of medication,
  • 19:40 --> 19:41like for example.
  • 19:41 --> 19:43Oftentimes drug companies have Co payment
  • 19:43 --> 19:46assistance programs that can help you know,
  • 19:46 --> 19:49provide you with support.
  • 19:49 --> 19:52If I meet with the patient and they're
  • 19:52 --> 19:55expressing concerns related to,
  • 19:55 --> 19:57say, their sexual health,
  • 19:57 --> 20:00you know with regards to their
  • 20:00 --> 20:02relationship with their partners,
  • 20:02 --> 20:02you know.
  • 20:02 --> 20:04Again, depending on where you're treated,
  • 20:04 --> 20:07there are quite possibly could be a
  • 20:07 --> 20:09clinic that specializes in that you know,
  • 20:09 --> 20:11in addressing those sexual
  • 20:11 --> 20:13concerns that you're having,
  • 20:13 --> 20:15you know it's not uncommon.
  • 20:15 --> 20:16For example,
  • 20:16 --> 20:19women who go through breast cancer
  • 20:19 --> 20:21do experience and can experience
  • 20:21 --> 20:23a variety of side effects
  • 20:23 --> 20:25related to their sexual health,
  • 20:25 --> 20:28and so there are resources out there
  • 20:28 --> 20:31that we can refer refer you to if
  • 20:31 --> 20:33somebody expresses concerns related
  • 20:33 --> 20:36to their faith or their spirituality.
  • 20:36 --> 20:37Again,
  • 20:37 --> 20:40there are chaplains or spiritual
  • 20:40 --> 20:43leaders in the community that we can
  • 20:43 --> 20:46help assess and get you connected to.
  • 20:46 --> 20:47So again,
  • 20:47 --> 20:49the social worker quite often
  • 20:49 --> 20:51is the hub of your resource,
  • 20:51 --> 20:54who then can then provide you
  • 20:54 --> 20:55with the different resources
  • 20:55 --> 20:58and things that are available.
  • 20:58 --> 21:00I know in the past when I've had
  • 21:00 --> 21:02patients that have had concerns
  • 21:02 --> 21:03related to their relationship
  • 21:03 --> 21:04and communicating with,
  • 21:04 --> 21:07you know family members and
  • 21:07 --> 21:09friends or their spouses you know,
  • 21:09 --> 21:12particularly at their initial diagnosis,
  • 21:12 --> 21:14that is something that I can
  • 21:14 --> 21:15definitely talk to them about
  • 21:15 --> 21:17and kind of a general rule.
  • 21:17 --> 21:18That I will sometimes say to
  • 21:18 --> 21:20patients they'll say to me, you know,
  • 21:20 --> 21:23I just don't know who should I tell like,
  • 21:23 --> 21:24what should I say?
  • 21:24 --> 21:27How much information should I share?
  • 21:27 --> 21:29And I'll usually say to them,
  • 21:29 --> 21:31my my advice would be to tell those
  • 21:31 --> 21:34people in your life who you're going to
  • 21:34 --> 21:36need to turn to for help and support.
  • 21:36 --> 21:38You know, and I see the range.
  • 21:38 --> 21:41I see people who post it to their
  • 21:41 --> 21:43500 Facebook friends about their
  • 21:43 --> 21:45diagnosis before they even leave
  • 21:45 --> 21:47their initial consultation.
  • 21:47 --> 21:49And then I have people that say to me,
  • 21:49 --> 21:52do I need to even let my my, my, my,
  • 21:52 --> 21:55my children know about my diagnosis
  • 21:55 --> 21:58and so you really do get the whole the
  • 21:58 --> 22:01whole range of questions and concerns.
  • 22:01 --> 22:03And again I encourage patients to
  • 22:03 --> 22:05go back to let those people in your
  • 22:05 --> 22:08life who you feel you're going to
  • 22:08 --> 22:10need to turn to for support and
  • 22:10 --> 22:11help through this process.
  • 22:11 --> 22:13Those should be the ones who
  • 22:13 --> 22:15you who you let know again,
  • 22:15 --> 22:18you know when patients have young.
  • 22:18 --> 22:21Children we you know we have a
  • 22:21 --> 22:23variety of social workers are
  • 22:23 --> 22:25often trained in a model called
  • 22:25 --> 22:26pact and it's called parenting.
  • 22:26 --> 22:28Added challenging time and it's all about
  • 22:28 --> 22:31how to talk to your children based on
  • 22:31 --> 22:33their age and their developmental level.
  • 22:33 --> 22:35So clearly what you would tell like a
  • 22:35 --> 22:37four or five year old would be very
  • 22:37 --> 22:40different than what you would share with,
  • 22:40 --> 22:42say someone who's a teenager
  • 22:42 --> 22:43or in their early 20s.
  • 22:43 --> 22:45And really,
  • 22:45 --> 22:48you know the American Cancer Society.
  • 22:48 --> 22:50Has recommended that really you
  • 22:50 --> 22:53just share a couple of basic things.
  • 22:53 --> 22:56You let them know about your diagnosis.
  • 22:56 --> 22:57You let them know your children,
  • 22:57 --> 23:01know where the cancer is located.
  • 23:01 --> 23:03You share with them what the plan is like.
  • 23:03 --> 23:04For example,
  • 23:04 --> 23:06I'm going to have surgery then
  • 23:06 --> 23:07possibly radiation or I'm going
  • 23:07 --> 23:08to start with chemotherapy.
  • 23:08 --> 23:10And then we're going to go from there.
  • 23:10 --> 23:13And then you also share with your children
  • 23:13 --> 23:15how their life might be impacted.
  • 23:15 --> 23:17During this time.
  • 23:17 --> 23:19I I agree with you, you know.
  • 23:19 --> 23:21Tapping into the resources that are
  • 23:21 --> 23:23available, whether they're financial
  • 23:23 --> 23:25resources or human resources,
  • 23:25 --> 23:26talking to a chaplain,
  • 23:26 --> 23:28talking to a social worker.
  • 23:28 --> 23:30Oftentimes there's also other
  • 23:30 --> 23:32resources that can help.
  • 23:32 --> 23:34Just with you know,
  • 23:34 --> 23:37taking a load off and taking a breath
  • 23:37 --> 23:40and giving yourself permission to to
  • 23:40 --> 23:44breathe and to to get get through this.
  • 23:44 --> 23:46Angela the other, the other area
  • 23:46 --> 23:49where you spend a great deal of time,
  • 23:49 --> 23:50is in survivorship,
  • 23:50 --> 23:51and as you mentioned,
  • 23:51 --> 23:53at the top of the show,
  • 23:53 --> 23:56you know all of this fear and anxiety.
  • 23:56 --> 23:57Many people kind of anticipate
  • 23:57 --> 24:00that there would be fear and
  • 24:00 --> 24:02anxiety associated with the initial
  • 24:02 --> 24:04diagnosis and and even while
  • 24:04 --> 24:06you're going through treatment.
  • 24:06 --> 24:07But even after you've kind
  • 24:07 --> 24:09of gotten through that,
  • 24:09 --> 24:11you've done the surgery and the
  • 24:11 --> 24:14chemo and the radiation and your
  • 24:14 --> 24:16doctors have said congratulations.
  • 24:16 --> 24:18Uh, you know your scans look good.
  • 24:18 --> 24:21We'll just follow you.
  • 24:21 --> 24:22It's reassuring,
  • 24:22 --> 24:24but it's not entirely reassuring.
  • 24:24 --> 24:26So talk to us a little bit
  • 24:26 --> 24:28about the fear of recurrence
  • 24:28 --> 24:30that some patients might have,
  • 24:30 --> 24:34and whether it's justified or not justified,
  • 24:34 --> 24:37and how you approach that as a social
  • 24:37 --> 24:39worker in the survivorship clinic.
  • 24:39 --> 24:41Oh, absolutely, and you know,
  • 24:41 --> 24:44just to to clarify with everyone,
  • 24:44 --> 24:46a fear of cancer recurrence.
  • 24:46 --> 24:48What what? That means?
  • 24:48 --> 24:51It's when a patient has some worry,
  • 24:51 --> 24:54some fear a concern, you know,
  • 24:54 --> 24:56related to the possibility that their
  • 24:56 --> 24:59cancer will come back or or even progress,
  • 24:59 --> 25:02and you know it's important to know
  • 25:02 --> 25:06and understand that this is one of the
  • 25:06 --> 25:07most commonly reported psychological
  • 25:07 --> 25:10issues that are experienced among
  • 25:10 --> 25:12cancer survivors and the majority
  • 25:12 --> 25:15of cancer survivors in research,
  • 25:15 --> 25:16you know, report.
  • 25:16 --> 25:19That this is one of the most significant
  • 25:19 --> 25:22unmet needs in helping them learn how
  • 25:22 --> 25:25to manage fear of cancer recurrence.
  • 25:25 --> 25:28You know, in my work within the
  • 25:28 --> 25:29cancer survivorship clinic,
  • 25:29 --> 25:32I would say that the majority of the
  • 25:32 --> 25:35patients that I meet with do experience
  • 25:35 --> 25:38some level of fear of cancer recurrence.
  • 25:38 --> 25:40Most of them them do.
  • 25:40 --> 25:43And and I always will ask patients
  • 25:43 --> 25:45when I'm meeting with them.
  • 25:45 --> 25:47You know, I will say to them.
  • 25:47 --> 25:49You know one of the most common things
  • 25:49 --> 25:51that cancer survivors experience is
  • 25:51 --> 25:54this fear that the cancer could come
  • 25:54 --> 25:56back and could progress, you know,
  • 25:56 --> 25:58is that something that you are experiencing?
  • 25:58 --> 25:59Is that something that you've
  • 25:59 --> 26:00thought about and again,
  • 26:00 --> 26:02quite often they will.
  • 26:02 --> 26:05They will indicate that they have,
  • 26:05 --> 26:09and it's important to let survivors know
  • 26:09 --> 26:13that this is so common and so normal.
  • 26:13 --> 26:16In fact, it's so common and normal
  • 26:16 --> 26:17that it's surprising.
  • 26:17 --> 26:18To me,
  • 26:18 --> 26:20when somebody says that they don't
  • 26:20 --> 26:22experience some level of this,
  • 26:22 --> 26:24and when I'm meeting with patients
  • 26:24 --> 26:27I really like to get a sense of at
  • 26:27 --> 26:29what level are they experiencing?
  • 26:29 --> 26:30You know this.
  • 26:30 --> 26:31This fear of cancer recurrence,
  • 26:31 --> 26:35so I'll ask a variety of questions.
  • 26:35 --> 26:36You know, you know,
  • 26:36 --> 26:38in the literature it's anywhere
  • 26:38 --> 26:41between 50 and 70% of cancer survivors
  • 26:41 --> 26:44across all cancer subtypes experience
  • 26:44 --> 26:48some level of this fear of cancer.
  • 26:48 --> 26:50Recurrence.
  • 26:50 --> 26:50Also,
  • 26:50 --> 26:53it's important to point out that fear
  • 26:53 --> 26:56of cancer recurrence is not strongly
  • 26:56 --> 26:58linked to someone's prognosis,
  • 26:58 --> 27:00and it may even occur in an individual
  • 27:00 --> 27:02who has a relatively good prognosis.
  • 27:02 --> 27:04So it really doesn't matter what
  • 27:04 --> 27:06kind of cancer you had, the stage,
  • 27:06 --> 27:07the size of your tumor.
  • 27:07 --> 27:09Again, it it can,
  • 27:09 --> 27:11you know it can occur and have
  • 27:11 --> 27:13higher levels regardless of of
  • 27:13 --> 27:16the percentage of whether or not
  • 27:16 --> 27:18the cancer would even come back.
  • 27:18 --> 27:20And you know, it's interesting.
  • 27:20 --> 27:22Because some of the things that I
  • 27:22 --> 27:25like to pay attention to when I'm
  • 27:25 --> 27:27when I'm meeting with survivors.
  • 27:27 --> 27:28You know there are,
  • 27:28 --> 27:30there are things that would make
  • 27:30 --> 27:32somebody maybe more vulnerable for
  • 27:32 --> 27:35developing fear of cancer recurrence.
  • 27:35 --> 27:38For example, if someone is a young adult,
  • 27:38 --> 27:41and when we refer to young adults,
  • 27:41 --> 27:44the adolescent young adult population is
  • 27:44 --> 27:47anyone between the ages of 15 and 39.
  • 27:47 --> 27:48However,
  • 27:48 --> 27:50I work in the adults cancer.
  • 27:50 --> 27:51Community,
  • 27:51 --> 27:54so that's anyone between the ages
  • 27:54 --> 27:55of 18 and 39.
  • 27:55 --> 27:58So if you're a younger cancer survivor,
  • 27:58 --> 28:00if you're female,
  • 28:00 --> 28:03if you have a history of you
  • 28:04 --> 28:08know psychosocial distress at mental health,
  • 28:08 --> 28:09history of anxiety, or depression,
  • 28:09 --> 28:12maybe during our cancer treatment you
  • 28:12 --> 28:15had more severe side effects like pain
  • 28:15 --> 28:18and fatigue or even sleep issues.
  • 28:18 --> 28:19But also if you have
  • 28:19 --> 28:21family members or friends.
  • 28:21 --> 28:23Who have developed cancer gone
  • 28:23 --> 28:25through treatment or sadly have
  • 28:25 --> 28:27even passed away from cancer.
  • 28:27 --> 28:29Those are all things that could
  • 28:29 --> 28:31contribute to making you more
  • 28:31 --> 28:33vulnerable for developing the
  • 28:33 --> 28:35fear of cancer recurrence.
  • 28:35 --> 28:37Angela Khairallah is a licensed
  • 28:37 --> 28:39clinical social worker.
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